I’m back!! The last post on this blog was dated May 2020….just two months after COVID hit my area. Even before that I had convinced myself that I had said everything I needed and wanted to say here. Hence the two-year silence. However, a couple of good friends of mine lately have been nudging me to go back to the blog and write again. Because, truth be told, my journey (and yours) has continued, and there are stories and revelations to be told. The Lord hasn’t stopped speaking, Scripture hasn’t stopped opening and questions and answers haven’t stopped surfacing.
When I started this blog, I went back through my personal journal entries as starting points and wrote from there. I may do that occasionally. I don’t really want to look back too much at the last couple of years. They were hard enough to live through the first time around. We are all so sick of COVID that who wants to hear any more about it, right? We all survived the best we could. Enough said.
So, we’ve left meetings. Huge decision. The break was made. For some, years ago, some weeks ago. We’ve left our Egypt on our way to our Promised Land. A lot of choices to make; everything from outward choices (mostly for us gals), to what do we do with Jesus now. Church or no church. Pick up our Bibles or put them aside for a while. And if we do pick up our Bibles, what versions do we read. The answer to each of those questions of entirely personal, but just know that it’s a common dilemma. But one thing I’ve
learned is that it is a process; it can’t be rushed, or at least it shouldn’t be. We are in unchartered waters and trying to stay afloat. It’s ok. We need each other and this blog is just one of several avenues available for support and community because I think we mostly agree that one of the biggest things we miss is that sense of belonging to a community we had in meetings. As warped as it sometimes was, and as shallow as it often was, we still felt like we were apart of something.
I have gone off and on to a couple of churches since I left the meetings, but to this day (it’s been about 16 years now), I have never felt connected to any of them. Maybe I just didn’t get involved enough, but it often felt like too much work to have to explain myself repeatedly. In the meetings, people knew who I was and what I was doing. At first, I just wanted anonymity; no one checking up on me if I missed a service or two or ten.(I think I still want that) Then I got involved in everything the women’s ministry was doing. Did that for years. Got burned out. Gradually, a pattern started evolving for me. My closest friends were all former meeting people. They were who I talked to, wrote to, zoomed with, visited with. Not exclusively but almost. Again, this is just my journey. No right or wrong here. But I feel understood with these ex-meeting people. I can relax with them so much easier. Again, I am not exclusive. But they are my people now.
That being said, those first years when I was going to church and participating in numerous women’s Bible studies, THAT is where I learned TRUE SOLID Christian teaching. I would walk away from those services/gatherings just blown away by things I had never heard before but were 100% scriptural. That period was vital for me. I still listen online most weeks to a local church, and I get more out of a one-hour sermon than I EVER did out of 4 days of convention. Amen. Remember when we sat in convention, and we would wait and wait for a message to “speak” to us, or a hymn? If something made me cry, I knew God had finally spoken and that there was hope for me. And if I came away with just a sentence or two like that, then it had been a “good” convention. Oh boy. How sad was that? But how could the workers have much of substance to share when they themselves (bless their hearts) haven’t yet heard the true Gospel, much less taught it. Or don’t know who Jesus truly was/is? Or don’t know about the Gospel of Grace because they were still putting their faith in the Gospel of Works? That is why whenever I visit with some who still go to meetings, or even think about some there that I dearly love, I just LONG that they could know and see and share what I have now compared to what they have. Because there truly is no comparison.
Several months ago, I realized that the Jesus I knew in the meetings was one dimensional as compared to the multi-dimensional Jesus I know now. (I will try to explain more what I mean by that in future posts.) And I’m trusting that as time goes on, He will only continue to grow in depth and meaning to me. I have learned so much about what He taught and lived and said than I had before. The Gospels tell what Jesus said and did, and then the Epistles explain them. The Holy Scriptures are a never-ending depth to me now. I wrote in my journal just this morning: “There’s so much, so much, in the Scriptures to read, pray about, soak in, and then write about! I’m overwhelmed, but in the best possible way. Where to start? When to stop? I could study and write all day.”
Nothing would mean more to me than that my family and the readers of this blog would get excited about Jesus, about the Word, about life with Him; both here and forever. Because those are the kind of people I need and want to surround myself with. I’m retired now and have a lot of free time to devote myself to these things. One of the reasons I left the meetings was because as I was starting to yearn for more of God in all parts of my life, and would share those longings in meetings, that no one wanted to come along on the journey with me. At least not that I knew of. I just couldn’t grasp that, and so I had to leave so that I could begin surrounding myself with people who did. And I have. And it’s precious.
One last thing…some have told me to forget about the blog; that blogs are things of the past. That people now just want Instagram or Twitter to read. Something fast. I’ve been guilty of that at times too and in the last 6-7 years, I have been shocked at how my attention span is significantly less than it ever used to be because of social media. There are some beautiful aspects of social media but I like what one blog writer wrote: “We have to recapture the wonder of slow growth and slow gains.” She said her goal was “to create a blog, and just be really faithful there over a long period of time. Even with little or no interaction.” She said this would sharpen her skills as a writer and keep herself protected from the worst parts of social media.
So, these last two paragraphs explain my purpose in reviving this blog. I love to write, and I need to write. And maybe someone will read it and the Holy Spirit will awaken something in their lives as well.